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I believe it is both and Matthew. There are too many erotic double entendre's to explicitly speak of an allegory only.. I see it more of a typology than allegory.

It can't be both. The relationship described is turbulent and shaky. It is in no sense a pattern of Christian marriage. Commentators can't even agree as to whether there is one lover or two. At the very least, even if there is only one lover, the woman is part of a harem. There is nothing normative about this story so far as a loving, stable relationship between man and wife is concerned.

WHo says the norm is loving and stable in marriage?:) Are you married matthew? Again Solomon wrote this and how can he who had 1000 partners be the norm of what one constitutes the monogamous marriage bond? It cannot be denied that one must alegorize to the extreme with the clear, non allegorical, sexual conotations in this Song. I agree it is not just about man and wife.

Considering that he has twelve children, I think we can safely say he is a happily married man! :)
 
John Calvin, saint that he was, is not the last reference for these matters. God's Word is. What does the Bible say? 1 Peter 2:11
Dearly beloved, I beseech you as strangers and pilgrims, abstain from fleshly lusts, which war against the soul.
Now, if the dance in question inspires lust, it's a sin, doesn't matter whether it's a Texas two-step or a tango. I don't think it's a coincidence that most men who take up dancing for a profession are also homosexuals.
 
John Calvin, saint that he was, is not the last reference for these matters. God's Word is. What does the Bible say? 1 Peter 2:11
Dearly beloved, I beseech you as strangers and pilgrims, abstain from fleshly lusts, which war against the soul.
Now, if the dance in question inspires lust, it's a sin, doesn't matter whether it's a Texas two-step or a tango. I don't think it's a coincidence that most men who take up dancing for a profession are also homosexuals.

?????

Men who dance (with their wives?!?!)are doing so because of latent homosexual tendancies?

This entire "dancing = lust" line of argument is hard for me to understand. The only thing I can think is that none of y'all have ever been to a dance. If you are making you assumptions about dancing based on what you see on MTV, then all I can say is; "turn off the TV & get out more with real people!"

We just held our 7th annual homeschool winter fancy dress ball here. The whole idea that families dancing together (all ages, moms & grandmothers down to 5 & 6 year olds). Doing traditional English Country dances & Southern Reels, as well as an occasional jig (this is the Maritimes!). Is "lust" is simply bizzare.
 
This entire "dancing = lust" line of argument is hard for me to understand. The only thing I can think is that none of y'all have ever been to a dance.

There is a clear testimony of witnessess from the Early Church Fathers through the Reformers to the Puritans and others including J. C. Ryle who all warned against dancing and the dangers it can do to the soul. James Durham condemned all forms of dancing and was correct to do so. And yes, I have been dancing in the past, much to my deep regret.

As this discussion is going nowhere, I will finish with Watson on the seventh commandment:

Take heed of mixed dancing. Instrumenta luxuriae tripudia [Dances are instruments of wantonness]. From dancing, people come to dalliance with another, and from dalliance to uncleanness. ‘There is,’ says Calvin, ‘for the most part, some unchaste behaviour in dancing.’ Dances draw the heart to folly by wanton gestures, by unchaste touches, and by lustful looks. Chrysostom inveighed against mixed dancing in his time. ‘We read,’ he says, ‘of a marriage feast, and of virgins going before with lamps, but of dancing there we read not.’ Matt 25: 7. Many have been ensnared by dancing; as the duke of Normandy, and others. Saltatio adadulteras non ad pudicas pertinet [Dancing is the province not of the chaste woman, but of the adulteress]. Ambrose. Chrysostom says, where dancing is, there the devil is. I speak chiefly of mixed dancing. We read of dances in Scripture, but they were sober and modest. Exod 15: 20. They were not mixed dances, but pious and religious, being usually accompanied with singing praises to God.​

And of course some Scripture:

"Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world." (1 John 2:15, 16)​
 
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Chrysostom also believed that it was effeminate for a man to shave his face along with some of the other early church fathers who taught that. Must all men be bearded...... I respect the early church fathers and give them more of my time to consider an issue when they have something to say but they are not infallible...

AV1611, I respect your view.. I disagree with it but I respect it.. I know others in my own family who have similar views and I try not to cause strife over it. In their eyes, It is Sin and so it is to them.

The true matter at hand is Lust and whether or not one can dance without lust or wantonness. I am the last person on here that want to encourage lust and a lack of modesty. As some know of me on here I am one who even believes that hair on a woman is extremely lustful and if uncovered, it is immodest. I find legs to be lustful and those who cover not to be immodest (Even the calf of the leg). So I am not against modesty or one who does not want to put away lust or wantonness. I find certain types of music as lustful and pornographic (Rock music) and I will not listen to those types of music. But I find it hard to put all dancing as lustful. Yes, certain types of dancing is lustful but not all. Just like certain types of music is lustful and a christian should not listen to so to a christian should abstain from certain dancing types.

Do I take my liberty and dance, not really... I am not really a dancing type of person. (I got no rhythm) :lol::lol:




This entire "dancing = lust" line of argument is hard for me to understand. The only thing I can think is that none of y'all have ever been to a dance.

There is a clear testimony of witnessess from the Early Church Fathers through the Reformers to the Puritans and others including J. C. Ryle who all warned against dancing and the dangers it can do to the soul. James Durham condemned all forms of dancing and was correct to do so. And yes, I have been dancing in the past, much to my deep regret.

As this is going nowhere, I will finish with Watson on the seventh commandment:

Take heed of mixed dancing. Instrumenta luxuriae tripudia [Dances are instruments of wantonness]. From dancing, people come to dalliance with another, and from dalliance to uncleanness. ‘There is,’ says Calvin, ‘for the most part, some unchaste behaviour in dancing.’ Dances draw the heart to folly by wanton gestures, by unchaste touches, and by lustful looks. Chrysostom inveighed against mixed dancing in his time. ‘We read,’ he says, ‘of a marriage feast, and of virgins going before with lamps, but of dancing there we read not.’ Matt 25: 7. Many have been ensnared by dancing; as the duke of Normandy, and others. Saltatio adadulteras non ad pudicas pertinet [Dancing is the province not of the chaste woman, but of the adulteress]. Ambrose. Chrysostom says, where dancing is, there the devil is. I speak chiefly of mixed dancing. We read of dances in Scripture, but they were sober and modest. Exod 15: 20. They were not mixed dances, but pious and religious, being usually accompanied with singing praises to God.​

"Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world." (1 John 2:15, 16)
 
James Durham condemned all forms of dancing and was correct to do so.

The position that all forms of dancing are sinful is simply not Biblical. I suspect the reason why you can find quotes from the church fathers, Reformers, and Puritans [note that Watson does not even go this far] to this effect is due to the influence of Greek philosophy on the Christian faith. Yes, there are many forms of dancing which are sinful, but no man can come to the word of God and honestly say that all dancing of every variety is sinful.

While I respect your right to abstain from such activities if you are not convinced they are appropriate, it must be remembered that there are "doubtful things" in the Christian life (Rom. 14:1). BTW I have never done any dancing, and have no desire to do so in the future.

Quoting 1 John 2:15-16 is unconvincing as you have not explained what relevance that text has to the point you are making. I have heard this text used to argued that people should not enjoy sports as well! While it is true that we should not worship sports the way the world does, there is nothing in Scripture to forbid deriving pleasure from sporting events in moderation.
 
Now can we please talk about what is really lustful and wanton: Makeup and Certain Grooming practices..... :smug::smug::smug::smug::smug:
 
The position that all forms of dancing are sinful is simply not Biblical. I suspect the reason why you can find quotes from the church fathers, Reformers, and Puritans [note that Watson does not even go this far] to this effect is due to the influence of Greek philosophy on the Christian faith. Yes, there are many forms of dancing which are sinful, but no man can come to the word of God and honestly say that all dancing of every variety is sinful.

Ok, "all" was too strong as I did not mean all dancing of every variety is sinful. David dancing before the Ark was not sinful nor was it sinful for the damsels to dance in Exodus 15 but such occurences do not justify what is being here defended by others.

As for James Durham being influenced negatively by Greek philosophy, well may I suggest a read of pages 326-333 of Durham's The Law Unsealed.

J. C. Ryle:

Concerning "dancing" (or going to Balls), I only ask Christians to judge the amusement by its tendencies and accomplishments. To say there is anything morally wrong in the mere bodily act of dancing would be absurd. David danced before the ark. Solomon said, "There is a time to dance" (Ecclesiastes 3:4). Just as it is natural to lambs and kittens to frisk about, so it seems natural to young people, all over the world, to jump about to a lively tune of music. If dancing were taken up for mere exercise, if dancing took place at early hours, and men only danced with men, and women with women, it would be needless and absurd to object to it. But everybody knows that this is not what is meant by modern dancing (going to Balls and dances). This is an amusement which involves very late hours, extravagant dressing, and an immense amount of frivolity, vanity, jealousy, unhealthy excitement, and vain conversation. Who would like to be found in a modern dance-hall when the Lord Jesus Christ comes the second time? Who that has taken much part in balls and dancing, as I myself once did before I knew better, can deny that they have a most dissipating effect on the mind, like using drugs and the drinking of alcoholic beverages does on the body? I cannot withhold my opinion that dancing and the going to balls is one of those worldly amusements which "war against the soul," and which it is wisest and best to give up.​

You raised exegesis on 1 John 2:15-16, well here is John Gill:

Love not the world,.... The habitable earth, the world in which men live; this is not to be loved by saints, as if it was their habitation, where they are always to be, and so loath to remove from it, seeing they are but sojourners, and pilgrims, and strangers here; this is not their rest, nor dwellingplace, their continuing city, or proper country, that is heaven. Nor should they love the men of the world, who are as they came into it, are of it, and mind the things of it, and lie in wickedness, and are wicked men; for though these are to be loved, as men, as fellow creatures, and their good, both spiritual and temporal, is to be sought, and good is to be done to them, as much as lies in our power, both with respect to soul and body; yet their company is not to be chosen, and preferred to the saints, but to be shunned and avoided, as disagreeable and dangerous; their evil conversation, and wicked communications, are not to be loved, but abhorred, and their works of darkness are to be reproved; nor are their ways to be imitated, and their customs followed, or their manners to be conformed unto:

neither the things [that are] in the world;
good men that are in the world, though they are not of the world, are to be loved; and the kingdom of Christ, though it is not of the world, yet it is in the world, and is to be regarded and promoted to the uttermost; and there are the natural and civil things of the world, called this world's goods, which may be loved within due bounds, and used in a proper manner, though they are not to be loved inordinately and abused. This is the character of worldly men. Near relations and friends in the world, and the blessings of life, may be loved and enjoyed in their way, but not above God and Christ, or so as to take up satisfaction and contentment in them, to make idols of them, and put trust and confidence in them, and prefer them to spiritual and heavenly things, and be so taken with them, as to be unconcerned for, and careless about the other; but the evil things of the world, or at least the evil use of them, and affection for them, are here intended, as appears from the following verse. Now it is chiefly with respect to the fathers, and young men, that this exhortation is given; and the repetition of what is said to them before is made, to introduce this; which is exceeding suitable to their age and characters. Old men are apt to be covetous, and love the world and worldly things, just when they are going out of it, and about to leave them; and young men are apt to be carried away with lust, vanity, ambition, and pride: and therefore, from each of these, the apostle dissuades, from the following arguments,

if any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him; that is, "the love of God", as the Alexandrian copy and the Ethiopic version read; who is the Father of Christ, and of all the elect in him...

For all that [is] in the world,.... This is the sum of the evil things in the world; or these following are the objects of sin in the world, or about which wicked men are conversant; even such as are carnal or grateful to the flesh, visible to the eye, and belong to this vain life, or serve to fill with pride and vanity; or these are the main things, which men that love the world most highly value and esteem:

the lust of the flesh; by which is meant, not lust in general, or concupiscence, the corruption of nature, which is the fountain of all sin, or indwelling sin, the flesh, or that corrupt principle which lusts against the Spirit; nor the various lusts of the flesh, fleshly lusts, which war against the soul, and which are many, and are also called worldly lusts; but some particular one, "a lust of the body", as the Syriac version reads; either the lust of uncleanness, which includes all unchaste desires, thoughts, words, and actions, fornication, adultery, rape, incest, sodomy, and all unnatural lusts; and which make up a considerable part of the all that is in the world: or else intemperance in eating and drinking, gluttony and drunkenness, excess of wine, surfeitings, rioting, and revellings, and all the sensual pleasures of life, by which the carnal mind, and the lusts of it, are gratified; whereby the soul is destroyed, the body is dishonoured, and a wound, dishonour, and reproach brought on the character, not to be removed; for which reasons the world, and the things of it, are not to be loved: the next follows,

the lust of the eyes: after unlawful objects, and may design unchaste and lascivious looks, eyes full of adultery, and whereby adultery is committed; but then this falls in with the other, unless that be confined to intemperance; rather then this may intend a sinful curiosity of seeing vain sights, and shows, with which the eye of man is never satisfied, Ec 1:8; and against which the psalmist prays, Ps 119:37, or rather the sin of covetousness is here designed, the objects of which are visible things, as gold, silver, houses, lands, and possessions, with which riches the eyes of men are never satisfied, and which sin is drawn forth and cherished by the eyes; and indeed a covetous man has little more satisfaction than the beholding his substance with his eyes, and in which he takes much sinful pleasure; and what a poor vain empty thing is this! therefore, love not the world, since this is a principal thing in it: as is also

the pride of life; by which seems to be meant, ambition of honour, of chief places and high titles, as in the Scribes and Pharisees, Mt 23:6, or of grand living, for the word signifies not so much life as living; living in a sumptuous, gay, luxurious, and pompous manner, in rich diet, costly apparel, having fine seats, palaces, and stately buildings, and numerous attendance; all which is but vanity and vexation of spirit. Now neither of these

is of the Father; of God the Father, as the Ethiopic version reads; the things which are desired and lusted after are of God, but not the lust itself; God is not the author of sin, nor is it agreeable to his will:

but is of the world; of the men of it, and agreeable to their carnal minds; and is a reason why things of the world are not to be loved by the saints, who are not of it, but chosen and called out of it; and besides, all these things are mean, base, vile, and contemptible, and unworthy of their love and affection.​

Matthew Henry

2. From the prohibition of worldly love or lust; it is not ordained of God: It is not of the Father, but is of the world, v. 16. This love or lust is not appointed of God (he calls us from it), but it intrudes itself from the world; the world is a usurper of our affection. Now here we have the due consideration and notion of the world, according to which it is to be crucified and renounced. The world, physically considered, is good, and is to be admired as the work of God and a glass in which his perfections shine; but it is to be considered in its relation to us now in our corrupted state, and as it works upon our weakness and instigates and inflames our vile affections. There is great affinity and alliance between this world and the flesh, and this world intrudes and encroaches upon the flesh, and thereby makes a party against God. The things of the world therefore are distinguished into three classes, according to the three predominant inclinations of depraved nature; as, (1.) There is the lust of the flesh. The flesh here, being distinguished from the eyes and the life, imports the body. The lust of the flesh is, subjectively, the humour and appetite of indulging fleshly pleasures; and, objectively, all those things that excite and inflame the pleasures of the flesh. This lust is usually called luxury. (2.) There is the lust of the eyes. The eyes are delighted with treasures; riches and rich possessions are craved by an extravagant eye; this is the lust of covetousness. 3. There is the pride of life. A vain mind craves all the grandeur, equipage, and pomp of a vain-glorious life; this is ambition, and thirst after honour and applause. This is, in part, the disease of the ear; it must be flattered with admiration and praise. The objects of these appetites must be abandoned and renounced; as they engage and engross the affection and desire, they are not of the Father, but of the world, v. 16. The Father disallows them, and the world should keep them to itself. The lust or appetite to these things must be mortified and subdued; and so the indulging of it is not appointed by the Father, but is insinuated by the ensnaring world.​

I think that dancing falls under all three; "lust of the flesh", "lust of the eyes" and "the pride of life". :2cents:

Now that really must be my last post. :oops:

See also: Topical Sermons - Shall We Dance?

And:

To be read in the Churches, by order of the General Presbytery of the Church.

The basis of Christian behaviour is Christian belief.

As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he. As a man believes so he behaves. His ethics are based on his theology. The Bible emphasises the unbreakable link between Doctrine and Discipline.

The Christian is called to holy living because of holy believing. God is his Lord, and the doing of the Lord's will is his delight.

God is holy, and demands holiness from His people. Holiness is not conformity to the traditions of men, but to the tests of God. His revealed commandments are the standard to which we must bow, and the rule by which we must walk. Psalm 1.

The true Christian must shun anything which works against God's holy standards. He puts off the works of the flesh. Galatians 5:19-21.
Those that do so bear the fruit of the Spirit. Galatians 5:22. The true Christian crucifies the flesh. Galatians 5:23.

The dancing of the world, hugging the other sex, set to music, is sensual and clearly caters to the lust of the flesh.

At ordination, all the ministers of the Free Presbyterian Church vow to denounce dancing, drinking, gambling, and the crazes of the present evil world.

Line dancing and other worldly practices are now freely indulged in by professing Christians at wedding receptions and other social occasions.

Line dancing is as sinful as any other type of dancing, with its sexual gestures and touchings. It is sensual, and not a crucifying of lust but an excitement to lust.

No Christian who is indwelt by the Holy Spirit should engage in it. It aids and abets fleshly lusts which war against the soul.

The Christian's body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, and those who defile it God will destroy.

As a Presbytery, we warn our members of the sinfulness of such dancing performances and exhort them not to participate in such practices.

As the God Who has called us is holy, so let us all be holy, obeying His call to separation from this present evil world. We should not touch the unclean things of a corrupted world, but we should make a clear distinction between the clean and the unclean.(Burning Bush - Free Presbyterian Church condemns Line dancing as sinful)​
 
I think that dancing falls under all three; "lust of the flesh", "lust of the eyes" and "the pride of life".

Lust provoking dancing does, the question of whether or not all dancing falls into this category is another question.
 
Rev. David Silversides has a very helpful sermon relative to the "sidebar discussion" that was going on regarding the interpretation of the Song of Solomon. It can be found here:

Interpreting the Song of Solomon

I know, I'll go ahead and rebuke myself:

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A welcome offtopic ;) Does he defend the correct view? (allegorical as per Durham and Gill)

Yes, Rev. Silversides advocates the allegorical nature of the Song.

:cheers:

For the alternative view see Gary Brady's Heavenly Love (published by Evangelical Press) or read Doug Wilson's excellent book Fidelity: What It Means to be a one-woman man.
 
As for James Durham being influenced negatively by Greek philosophy, well may I suggest a read of pages 326-333 of Durham's The Law Unsealed.

Don't worry that is one of my favourite books (I hope Chris Coldwell is reading;)). However, if you do not think that the Reformers and Puritans were negatively influenced by Greek philosophy, then tell me where Calvin got his ideas for a near messianic state from (see his commentary on Isaiah 49:23)? Plato's Republic perhaps? Also, why did Harvard and Yale - both founded by the Puritans - rapidly become humanistic institutions? Ideas have consequences.
 
Also, why did Harvard and Yale - both founded by the Puritans - rapidly become humanistic institutions?

Liberalism (the Half-way Compromise as a symptom of a greater cancer), increasing affluence, pollution by the world, you name it...

"Ideas have consequences," especially when you give them greater gravity than they deserve. I am not going to use the Bible to classify all birds, fish, and mammals. But though I may use and accept Aristotle's classification of the animal world, that does not mean that I think his logic is the be-all and end-all (or is even significant in any respect) in every area of life. But some do, and therein lies the beginnings of the end, as they rush forward to apply humanist thinking to more than they should.
 
As an addendum to my post above, I just heard Mike Horton say on an episode of the White Horse Inn that Yale and Harvard went down the tubes due to their adoption of Arminianism He did not expand on it, but it sounds correct to me...
 
As an addendum to my post above, I just heard Mike Horton say on an episode of the White Horse Inn that Yale and Harvard went down the tubes due to their adoption of Arminianism He did not expand on it, but it sounds correct to me...

As far as I am aware that is correct. When Harvard went Arminian, they founded Yale - which later became Arminian. Of course Arminianism is just a humanistic view of salvation, the logical outworking of teaching human autonomy in other areas.
 
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