Hyper-Calvinist are this modern ages Bigfoot. Everyone talks about them but no one shows me one.
I agree with this. Hyper-calvinism, as defined very ably by Pergamum and Joshua is certainly a major heresy, but not because it is Hyper-Calvinistic, but simply because it´s another form of antinomianism, provided there are real adherents to it. If one makes of Divine sovereignty something that annihilates any human responsibility (and it seems that the key of Hyper Calvinism lies here), he is just another antinomianist of the pile. A person who says that he doesn´t have to do anything because he is an elect, and because everything is foreordained by God (which is true, by the way), is not more calvinist than Calvin, but much less so. It is an hypo-Calivinist. And besides, you can tell 99% that he is not an elect one, indeed, or at least that his time of regeneration hasn´t come yet.
In my humble opinion, the key of the issue lies in the so-called "two wills of God". Arminianism and that that we are calling Hyper-Calvinism seem to have a common root: a marked inability to understand these "two wills". The former generates an impotent god that wills the salvation of all, but is unable to produce it, while the latter makes God the author of sin, and represent Him as delighting in the damnation of some men, as if this was an end in itself. I wrote a 12-page article in which I endeavor to solve the problems of both infra and supra schemes, but I´ll subject it to review before presenting it here. It´s not that difficult, I believe, to make a new satisfactory scheme taking the best of both sides. But what is basic, I think, is to avoid any attempt to "justify" God of His decrees, as the infralapsarian scheme usually tries to do, incurring in lots of inconsistencies, In my humble opinion.
I´ve found that there is a very lax use of the term hyper-Calvinist by all the parties. hyper-Calvinist is something no one wants to be labelled as, but that everyone feels free to apply to those He considers the ultra right-wing party in Theology. Usually, in reformed circles, it is applied to any supralapsarian, indiscriminately, but this is completely wrong. The vast majority of supralapsarians believe that:
1. Regeneration is necessary for salvation,
2. Ministers have the obligation to preach the good news to all men indiscriminately
3. All men without exception have a duty and obligation to repent and believe the good news
4. God is not the author of sin.
5. Everything that God commands should be done.
6. God has a preceptive as well as decretive will.
7. The damnation of the wicked is not a pleasure for God, nor is it an end in itself, but a means to accomplish His ultimate goal.
Outside of Reformed circles, the term is used ofter to describe anyone who dares to believe that God is something more than a mere spectator of the events. I´ve find in many websites (especially in those created by Campbellites and other sensationalists) the abusive use of Hyper-Calvinism as anything that implies even to a minimum degree that God is sovereign. Just see this example, out of many possible, taken from an article called "Hyper-Calvinism in the Church exposed":
"Sovereign", to Engedi and the PCA means that God controls each and every event. However, this is NOT a Biblical concept (!). God created humanity with a free will and no one is ever predestinated to heaven or hell. No one who sinned blamed God.
This is hyper-Calvinism for them (I wonder what simple "Calvinism" could be!)
Now, regarding the cheeskake issue and the conflict of desires in God, maybe I wouldn´t put in in those terms, but it is still important to distinguish between the preceptive and the decretive (I hope this word is correct in English) "wills". Obviously, in an ultimate sense, the decretive will is the absolute, and God has one final goal, namely, summing all things in Christ (Eph.1:10), and to accomplish this will he has decreed anything that was and is to happen in His creation, including the reprobation of some (Prov. 16:4). But it would be incorrect to say that he wants men to sin. No one here would say, I think, that it is false to tell an homosexual: "God WANTS you to stop practicing your sin", and still, in another sense, the sin of this person was decreed by God Himself, because otherwise it would have never happened. The homosexuality of this person was not an accident that occurred in the universe of God. But nevertheless God wants this person to repent and stop sinning, in His preceptive will, no matter if he is an elect or not. Now, sin is not only trangression of the law, but also lack of conformity, and in this sense it can be fair to say that since the law commands to love God, and believe in His word, you can also say to any person: "God WANTS you to love Him and believe in Christ", even if he is not an elect (a thing which none of us can know). The fact that this person fails to obey is not a failure on the part of God, of course, nor is it that the command wasn´t sincere, but simply that there is a higher end for which God decrees something different, in the case of this person, from what His preceptive will commands him to do.
WGT Shedd states about 15 reasons for which we have to preach the Gospel, and explaining why the offer is sincere, which he expunds immediately after defending the limited atonement doctrine. So one thing doesn´t hinder the other. (see Dogm. Theol. II "Vicarious Atonement")
Sorry for the long post, I´m a compulsive writer.
In Christ