Originally posted by JohnV
Fraser:
The urge is there that one can change the world by logging on to different message boards. But it doesn't work that way. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink.
Some advice:
Treat your message board with respect. It is a community of sorts, and consists of real people. Though most may be on message boards to fill cyber space with junk, yet what you do is up to you. You are communicating with real people, even if they don't see themselves that way. Treat it like a community.
Don't return evil for evil. Answering one lie with another, though it sounds better, is still wrong.
Arguing with a person is an act of love. If it is anything else it is out of selfishness. So if you're attacking the person instead of helping him, then don't do it.
The funny thing about truth is that it is undefeatable. It is so easy to defeat someone's false beliefs just by letting him destroy it himself. If all the world claims that God is dead, He is yet as alive as if everyone believed in Him. Nothing has changed or can be changed about God; but a lot has changed about the person making the claim. Keep your eyes on that instead. Then you are helping him. Just let the argument defeat itself as you're helping him, and keep nudging them to that recognition with good and helpful arguments.
Do a check on yourself to be sure that you are using your time wisely. If you need to be on a message board just to be doing something, then you're likely hooked to your computer. Same with if you're doing nothing but playing PS2, those 100 hr. games. Go for a walk, or read a book. Or talk to someone.
There is always another message board that needs the gospel. Don't get bent out of shape over this one. If, however, you do take on the responsibilities of answering the fool, then be aware that it is easy to become like the fool, but with Christian jargon. Winning arguments doesn't do it by itself; winning hearts does. So pray a lot for the people you are trying to reach. And type out the things that will help to that end, showing the character of Christ in your own behaviour, bringing them closer to a knowledge of God and of themselves.