I'm done talking about it. I wasn't there, he is dead. And like I said, other Pastors I hold in high esteem, I am sure thoroughly weighed the issue and found no fault. If you would like to, you are free to, and so is anyone else. Please, carry on.
Brother Dave, be careful. Many of these same men you admire and esteem did exactly the same thing about a dozen years ago, maybe a little longer, with CJ Mahaney of Sovereign Grace Ministries. We followed the story because we were once members of an SGM church. There were at least a few dozen SGM churches- Calvinist, Baptist. They were sort of a Piper-Grudemite combo with a lot of legalism and top down control thrown into the mix, although our experience in the 1990s managed to be a good one for the most part.
Mahaney ended up very tight with Together for the Gospel and Gospel Coalition guys, and was at most of the conferences as a speaker. Around 2011 a dam of sordid stories broke when the former #2 guy in the organization published a lot of serious allegations about Mahaney. It was kind of like Vinnie disclosing where Mario and Luigi buried all the bodies....the #2 was not a good guy himself, but he knew the history.
As I said, a dam broke. A lot of people spoke up who had lived in fear of the retribution if they dared to tell their story. The worst was all the bungled sex abuse cases, and the women being told to stay with pedophile hubby. Or the little kid being told they are a sinner too, and that moral equivalency being pushed to shut things up. One couple we had known had a hub in jail for molesting the kids, and child services said "doesn't your church know that if he comes back into the home, we have to remove the kids?".
There were so many stories, and some were personal testimony with no "proof", but some involved the perps in jail. I mean, the guys had confessed.
To make a long story short, the whole crowd of celebrity preachers some of whom you named all immediately defended Mahaney at first. They labeled it slander and gossip, and accused victims or the victims parents of being bitter and rebellious and all that jazz. It went on for quite a while-years. There was one blog I followed called SGM survivors which was a mix of people, but I read things by former SGM pastors and staff on there that was sorrow for the sheep, caring for the flock, and trying to get things made right. ( the blog hosts eventually didn't want to keep paying the bandwidth charges and took it down, once SGM was essentially defanged and broken up). And the accusations and libel by some celebrity preachers towards the SGM critics was just awful.
Finally a lawyer named Rachel Denhollender (sp?) got to meet with Al Mohler and laid out the facts, the main one being how Mahaney had lied. Mohler accepted the facts, admitted publicly that he had been wrong, that CJ lied to him and been responsible for much harm, and then he broke up with Mahaney and all the brother-stuff with seminary and conferences and so forth. And all of a sudden you didn't hear about any of the big celebrities hanging out with Mahaney and SGM any longer. Maybe its out there- I am so done with that crowd that I could miss the latest news of course.
The point here is- IT HAPPENED BEFORE!!! not long ago, and with many of the same guys. They are -well, were- doing the same thing with JM that they did before with Mahaney. I had looked in vain for a long time after Al Mohler went public about being wrong, for something similar from some of the big names out there. Were they sorry for what they had said? Did they ever on any level face that they had been duped? When I see-well, saw- the same people schmoozing with JM I wondered.
You need to be careful Dave. Peter joined the wrong celebrities in Galatians and even Barnabas was led astray, plus I assume much of the church. Meditate on that. Don't assume just because it is Peter the great preacher and apostle who worked miracles, and Barnabas, that they must be right about the guys they were hanging with. Those guys were not fine and anybody who assumed they were because Peter fell in with them, was led into serious deception- "under a curse, bewitched". You will see more of this someday I am sure, so don't check your discernment and investigative skills at the door just because of some guy you esteem.