Bladestunner316
Puritan Board Doctor
How did the reformers and christians throughout history go about reforming a church?
Follow along with the video below to see how to install our site as a web app on your home screen.
Note: This feature may not be available in some browsers.
Originally posted by Bladestunner316
Id rather not go into specifics other than what I have stated.
How does one go about reforming a church like a Dispensational-arminian church or charismatic church?
Blade
Originally posted by Bladestunner316
Id rather not go into specifics other than what I have stated.
How does one go about reforming a church like a Dispensational-arminian church or charismatic church?
Blade
http://www.theologicallycorrect.com/webmaster/blogs/index.php?p=75&more=1&c=1&tb=1&pb=1Well, as most of you already know, I've made the decision to leave NSBF. My old Pastor and I met over a month ago in April and talked through some of my issues with NSBF, opportunities for growth and such. Well, consider this an exposition (more fully) of why.
Those of you who've been following the progress and development of me and my thoughts over the years, you'll remember this post to the BBWarfield discussion list about a year and two months ago where I said:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bbwarfield/message/17459
At my church, my pastor is open to discussions on theology with me and he believes (as I do) that my gifts lie heavily in the areas of teaching, evangelism, and *gasp* a call to eldership. I haven't dug into all of the opportunities at my present church. I want to do seminars, talks, etc... and my pastor is open to them - he's just waiting on a proposal from me. And I believe.... maybe naively, that
somewhere along the way, after digging into the text of scripture, my church would move more toward being reformed....at least in most of the leadership.
Now I've had this convo before with 2-3 of you *snicker* and I already know/hear the jokes. But things are looming more and more in my mind as of late.
Am I supposed to be an agent of change in my church ? Genuine opportunities are there for me to fellowship with folks in my present church a lot more and share the truth of reformed theology as well as just get more involved with folks and establish more authentic relationships with other believers - something that I have been lagging in. I have not participated in every opportunity at my church to fellowship more with folks and be a part of their lives and allow them to be a part of mine.
On the flip side, sometimes I feel like I'm STARVING for expositional preaching. I mean DEEP stuff. Sometimes, we get some pretty decent sermons on Sunday morning and many times, Pastor or whomever is preaching, does a VERY good job bringing forth the Word of God.
But I'm a Calvinist. And my 'doctrines-o'-grace'-o-meter has a tendency to go off when I hear things like 'accept Christ' , the pre-packaged 'sinners' prayer' and many more of the unbiblical elements that Charles Finney has introduced into modern evangelicalism which folks have imbibed and taken as normative.
Other times.... we follow the fads of the day. I've never been a fan of the Seeker Movement, so Hybels, Warren and others are not friends of mine. I'm sick of hearing about the Purpose Driven Life (my pastor is preaching through it) - I think it's milk, drivel and I have serious theological issues with Warren's use of questionable dynamic and Catholic translations in his book. Many times, the scriptures he quotes do NOT support what he makes them appear to support (and I have a review of PDL coming up that I'll be doing on my site shortly). I'm sick of seeing a pragmatic approach toward church.... and while I believe that we have *some* freedom in how we set up some aspects of our worship service (i.e.- music style and choices, provided they are theologically correct, communion as a weekly part of service or not), some things like 'announcements' and 'skits' and such are NOT a part of a Biblical worship service. The preaching is kinda average most of
the time - they seek to draw people in and therefore, rarely step on folks toes beyond what they may already be accustomed to.
Sometimes the preaching represents a Biblical view of conversion and the gospel, sometimes not. Sometimes I get the good Luke 9:23 sermons and sometimes... I get the 'cheap grace no-Lordship' gospel (for my non-reformed friends who are getting this BCC'd to them, the 'non-Lordship' version of the gospel message is that teaching you normally hear which says that one can have Jesus as Savior but not as
Lord - a very unbiblical teaching and downright heretical, but normative in a lot of churches today).
On the flip side (again), there are MANY positive things about my church. Our small groups (care groups) are GREAT. People, for the most part, really care about people. The care group leaders - especially my care group leader - really care about PEOPLE and their growth in Christ. We have some pretty decent programs and groups going on - men's bible study, women's bible study and normally Wed. night
Bible study (they're going through PDL in Wed. night now....so bleh). When pastor does expositional preaching... he's ON POINT. Church discipline is practiced. I don't have to worry about egalitarianism - we all agree on the issue of women as elders in the church being incorrect and unbiblical. Other basics - Trinity, salvation by faith alone in Christ alone apart from works, the authority of scripture and innerrancy, etc.... are all staples of our doctrinal statement. As I
began this letter stating, my home church is SOUND, but not REFORMED. So they have 'enough' to spur on some definite growth in some folks, but I think there's a 'glass ceiling' that everyone hits after a point because they're NOT reformed.
Part of everything going on in my head is also a desire to SERVE somewhere. I partly feel (rightly) that I haven't done my best to try and serve with these gifts where I am - so why leave and head to another church ?
What's changed since then ?
NSBF hasn't really moved much. Still the same ol' traditional black baptist church with the non-denominational nametag on it. My old care group leader/the only other elder - LEFT. We've taken back in two old ministers who are there for as long as God tells them to be (both of them realize they won't be at NSBF forever).
I've grown. I've been through some serious problems, issues, a relationship that was supposed to be progressing to marriage which ended, physical therapy, financial issues and much more.... and the Lord has given me much wisdom as a result of my experiences. I've learned to be a better communicator, I've grown an increasing desire to see God's glory manifested and His saving grace lived out in my life and proclaimed to others consistently. I've turned from my prideful and self-centered times and moved toward thinking more Biblically about all areas of the Christian faith. I still struggle with some of the same issues I had personally a year ago, but not as much as I used to. I've redesigned my ministry site, sought to reach out to more, done more writing, thinking and developed new material in an effort to reach more folks with a Christ-centered message.
Knowledge, wisdom and stature.
I've put in a propopsal to NSBF (as most of you who keep up should know by now), which was put to be organized by the dude who does outreach at my church (a good brother). Well, I called to talk with him, left a message and haven't gotten a call back. This was 2 weeks ago. No, I haven't tried to call him again - the past two weeks have been kinda rough, so I understand that these things happen.
In the meantime, I've had more conversations with folks and I've grown some more. Tony (pastor of Gaithersburg Comm. Church) has been an invaluable friend to me. So has my boy Derek from Believer's Chapel in B-more. Between these two guys, I've found a ton of accountability (the Lord even impressed it on Derek's heart to pop in on my last Sunday when I'd been home and to give me some encouragement and 'stir me up' to better works in Christ), fellowship and 'iron sharpening'. I thank God for these two men and their efforts in my life.
Tony and I went to the Eastern District Leadership meeting for his church's denomination the weekend of April 9.
I got to meet Greg Strand and here him give the leadership (mostly pastors) of the EFCA a great presentation/stirring up to good works on the importance of holding to solid teaching in their churches and how to apply it. I was introduced to the eastern district superintendent for the region and the director of church planting for the region. I got to meet a buncha pastors - some Calvinist, some not - from all over the area. I got to fellowship with a buncha brothers in sisters and Christ whose heart and passion for truth match my own.
I spent a lot of time over the past year (since the e-mail discussion above) thinking about and researching other denominations. I primarily looked at the PCA and the Free Church. The SBC has a 'Calvinist Wing' under the auspices of the Founders' Ministries, but they really just didn't appeal to me. I looked (and am still looking heavily) into Sovereign Grace Ministries, but their view on spiritual gifts just doesn't sit right with me when I read scripture. They're great in every other aspect, though. In fact, they're kinda #2 on my list right behind the EFCA.
I've talked with my pastor previously and told him I need training. I need to be used. The call to teach is there. I have to do SOMETHING before I explode or something. I feel driven. And change isn't happening at NSBF. My personal growth and opportunities for me to grow more, serve more, etc.... aren't happening at NSBF. My theological convictions have come to the top - I can't be at NSBF anymore and hold the views that I do. There are more opportunities for me to teach outside of NSBF, more opportunities to serve outside of NSBF.... just more. And that's what I need right now. So I'm leaving. I'm heading to a reformed church and get trained and used properly. There's not enough going on at NSBF to engage me. It's time to move on.
This, of course, has HUGE implications. I was actually in the process of getting FFT (First Friday Talks) together at NSBF. I was getting 're-connected' with folks at church, spending more time in the church with its' membership and leadership and really attempting to pour myself and my life into the church. I don't feel like it was really being done back in return, though - with a few exceptions here and there. But that aside, the major issue is thus: my convictions and beliefs are not where NSBF is. NSBF's doctrinal statement is broadly accepting of many different evangelical type folks. Personally, I'm a lot more narrow. Not that I believe that non-Calvinists aren't saved, but rather, I believe that we are responsible for learning and believing ALL that the Bible teaches.... and I didn't see that happening at NSBF... just the same lame topical sermons over and over again... and while they were and are feeding someone they weren't feeding ME.
Those of you who are Calvinists know.... when you get to talkin' about the Sovereignty of God, sometimes folks look at you like you're from another planet. I gotta be around people who are like-minded.... and there are "other" issues with NSBF...but I don't wanna bad-talk NSBF on the internet. Suffice to say, I'm not connected there....or rather, I wasn't connected there.
I've heard, since leaving, that folks have asked about me. Well, I'll meet up with folks again one day. Meanwhile, I have some more growing to do and some more work to do with building relationships with my new church fam @ GChurch. So far, so good.
Originally posted by Puritanhead
Kerry,
You obviously found a good Bible-preaching sovereign grace church. When I was attending Regent Law (before I ran out of money), I went to Sovereign Grace a lot in Chesapeake, VA. C.J. Mahaney and his peers gave some substantive sermons there and the book store was awesome. I think you mentioned him before, perhaps he was a guest speaker. I'm not sure how he or if Sovereign Grace Ministries is affiliated, but I know they have a church or two in Maryland. In any case, you seem to have found a good church home from you're saying.