I love my church, the OPC. It has been my church for by far the majority of my life, except for about 4-5 years of it--when I was infant-to-toddler, and when I was first taken into the ministry.
The PCA first took me up as an assistant pastor, and allowed me the opportunity to grow some in a church that was very close to all my OPC background. Thank you so much Faith PCA! Now, I'm back in my old church.
But I think it needs saying, that there is no perfect church. I'm not going to "sell" anyone on the OPC. It's not my job to sell it, market it, whatever. I want it to grow, I want it to improve. But not at any price, and not at the expense of what truth is in her.
I'm afraid that a lot of our efforts right here fall into a trap, a worldly trap. We need to fall in love with a church the way we fall in love. It really isn't an analytical thing. We need to grow into love and work at love the way we are born into a good family, and work on our marriages.
Now I know one guy who studied his own faith, and studied denominations, and then chose the OPC. OK, that's fine and the study he did was good. But today I'm positive he doesn't love his church because it is properly indexed. He loves it because it is home. And because it is home, and because he knows the pains and joys of the denomination from its roots and loves those roots, and its fruits, and cares about her health and purity, he is a great minister. I don't even agree with him on everything, but I still admire him. And no, I'm not thinking about my father. (With him, I'm just a chip off the block.) So, here I am, a child of the denomination, and the manse, and I share a love of this church with an "outsider" cum "insider".
Get the OPC history video from the denominational office. Watch it. Learn the history of the church. Or learn the ARP history, or the PCA history, and the history going back to Scotland and the Reformers. Just know what you are joining, and make that history you own tale. That is what covenant theology is all about, right? Making the history of redemption MY history. Making Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, David, Daniel, Peter, Paul, all of these people MY fathers, and Eve and Sarah and Ruth--my mothers.
And then, whichever church you join--love her. Love her. Love her. Thick and thin, love her. I cry at the end of that video, every time. I don't watch it often, I'm too guarded of my sensitivities.
I guess, this is a plea to forget about picking a church for everything that's right about it. Because there's always something wrong about it too. Pick a church for what is right AND wrong about it. Pick a church for the sake of love to Christ, and labor to reform her.