No Longer A Libertine;
Women cry in movies, that isn't wrong in and of itself, making important decisions on the whim of what a deceitful heart feels at a certain moment would be however.
Even Jesus wept...was He being overly emotionally because He shed tears? Or is it only the context in which men shed tears that make it different?
And I have known many men (some Christians, some not) who have made important decisions based on 'their feelings' at the time.
However, women can be more emotional based on the nurturing side God created us with, and it can be both a weakness and a strength.
My husband can look at things from what seems like a 'logical' perspective, and ignore the emotional aspect and how the decision made will effect everyone involved not only emotionally, but in general. I can look at the same situation, and see both his logical arguements and the good/bad of them, and see how they will effect everyone involved, whereas he only thinks in terms of the most logical outcome of a given situation, based on trying to use his own logic.
There have been times he has ignored the emotional context, and only looked at what he saw as the most logical conclusion, and made some really bad decisions. And to his credit, in most cases, he now looks at what I see and takes those things into consideration, and makes wiser decisions for the entire family.
God tells us "lean not on your own understanding" but many times even though things seem logical, and if this course of action seems most logical (in man's eyes), then it must be the most logical course of action to take...it's a given right...it seems logical, so therefore it is the most logical, so therefore we must go this direction...it doesn't matter what a womans (God given) emotions tell her...emotions are illogical and therefore should be ignored and not taken into consideration when making decisions.
Hmmm, sounds as if that goes against Scripture of the wife being a helpmate for the husband, and God's understanding of His creation of women, and it not being good for men to be alone.
It appears even God understands men can not always make the best decisions only looking at the logical side of an arguement, and he needed a helpmate to help him see a situation from all sides.